FamilyLife Blended® Minute

20 First Dates

with Ron Deal | February 13, 2024
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Yeah, that's right. 20 first dates!

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  • Ron Deal

    Ron L. Deal is one of the most widely read and viewed experts on blended families in the country. He is Director of FamilyLife Blended® for FamilyLife®, founder of Smart Stepfamilies™, and the author and Consulting Editor of the Smart Stepfamily Series of books including the bestselling Building Love Together in Blended Families: The 5 Love Languages® and Becoming Stepfamily Smart (with Dr. Gary Chapman), The Smart Stepfamily: 7 Steps to a Healthy Family, and Preparing to Blend. Ron is a licensed marriage and family therapist, popular conference speaker, and host of the FamilyLife Blended podcast. He and his wife, Nan, have three sons and live in Little Rock, Arkansas. Learn more at FamilyLife.com/blended.

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20 First Dates

With Ron Deal
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February 13, 2024
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Ron: Yeah, that’s right. 20 first dates!

Announcer: For FamilyLife Blended®, here’s Ron Deal.

Ron: John Townsend and Henry Cloud, authors of Boundaries, gave some advice to a friend of mine who had gone through a difficult divorce and was beginning to date again: get acquainted with 20 different women before beginning to date any of them. Well, Steve really like the third one. Why twenty?

I don’t think there’s anything special about the number of people, but the approach made Steve slow down and stay objective: he’d have to regulate his desire and his pain and not let either make the decisions for him. No, this strategy is not for everyone. But staying objective and managing yourself is. By the way, Steve married the third one! For FamilyLife Blended I’m Ron Deal.

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