About the Host
Ron Deal
Ron L. Deal is one of the most widely read and viewed experts on blended families in the country. He is Director of FamilyLife Blended® for FamilyLife®, founder of Smart Stepfamilies™, and the author and Consulting Editor of the Smart Stepfamily Series of books including the bestselling Building Love Together in Blended Families: The 5 Love Languages® and Becoming Stepfamily Smart (with Dr. Gary Chapman), The Smart Stepfamily: 7 Steps to a Healthy Family, and Preparing to Blend. Ron is a licensed marriage and family therapist, popular conference speaker, and host of the FamilyLife Blended podcast. He and his wife, Nan, have three sons and live in Little Rock, Arkansas. Learn more at FamilyLife.com/blended.
Episode Transcript
Ron: What would you say to your younger self?
Announcer: For FamilyLife Blended®, here’s Ron Deal.
Ron: On our 31st wedding anniversary I wondered what I would say to my younger self about marriage. Here’s one thing I came up with. “Ron, don’t spend so much time trying to change Nan.” I probably wasted 15 years or more thinking more about her behavior than mine. But things really got better for us when I started looking in the mirror and measuring myself by Christ’s example of love.
By focusing on me, I was able to change the only person I was able to change. And here’s the cool thing: when I did, it softly invited her to do the same. And in changing ourselves we made far more progress than trying to change the other. For FamilyLife Blended I’m Ron Deal.
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